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Foster Parenting Myths

Foster Parenting Myth #385: Every child is a fountain of joy.
Myth #386: every child is an endless supply of misery.

In reality, every foster child has individual strengths and challenges. By matching each child to the ability, experience, and comfort level of their foster family, we make it easier and more rewarding for everyone - it's just one more reason to consider becoming a foster parent.

Foster Parenting Myth #614: The flood gate is your front door.
In reality, our goal is to achieve a comfortable, low-stress environment for every foster family and foster child. So whether it's a few children or just one child, any help you can give will make all the difference to our foster kids.
Foster parents have the right to decline accepting placement of a child offered to them without reprisal. It is important to know yourself and your family’s capacity and to know you have a voice.

Foster Parenting Myth #428: Applicants must be rich, married, Christian, mortgage, free and direct descendants of British Royalty.
In reality, foster parents can be from any cultural background, single or common-law couples, homeowners or renters, middle class, of modest income, or even retired. Knowing that you don't have to be an impossibly perfect super-mom is just one more reason to consider becoming a foster parent.

Foster Parenting Myth #73: We'll throw you to the wolves with nothing but a half-hearted "good luck."
In reality, all foster parents are provided with ongoing training and assistance for any issue that might arise. From access to a Foster Care Support Worker, to allowances for major and miscellaneous fees, we're here to help you every step of the way. It's just one more reason to consider becoming a foster parent.

Foster Parenting Myth #824: No one cares what age or gender you would prefer.
In reality, we take into account your wishes and what fits best with your family before placing a child in your care. Making everyone comfortable with the foster situation ensures the most welcoming experience for the foster child. It's just one more reason to consider becoming a foster parent.

Foster Parenting Myth #216: They're all perfect little angels.
Myth #217: They're all mischievous little troublemakers.

In reality, foster children run the whole spectrum of personalities. By finding the right fit between the challenges of the child and the abilities of the foster family, we make life better for everyone. It's just one more reason to consider becoming a foster parent.

Foster Parenting Myth #154: You'll get diapers, sex questions, and trig homework all on the first day.
In reality, while we do expect our foster parents to hit the ground running, you will have developed a working relationship with us in the home study  phase. This knowledge will help us make the journey manageable for the foster child and for you. So whether your foster child is a newborn baby, an active toddler, or an awkward teen, we'll be there to support you. Just one more reason to consider becoming a foster parent.

Foster Parenting Myth #592: It's a great way to get rich.
Myth #593: It's a guaranteed way to go broke.

In reality, foster parents will receive a per diem to cover most of the children's expenses. But let’s be real, the regular monthly rate for a child newborn to 11 is $647.10  for a 30 day month and  $803.40 for a child 11 to 17.  Most foster parents do dip into their own pocket. and it is important to consider that when applying to foster.
We do not expect foster parents to subsidize foster children but most families tell us those extras are not always financial that tell the child they are a part of the family are vital.  It's just one more consideration in becoming a foster parent.

Foster Parenting Myth:#19:You’ve got to be Mother Theresa

In reality, foster parents come to us with a wide variety of life experiences. Mostly we are looking for people who want to make a difference in a child's life.  People who know how to use their words not  physical force to make changes in behaviour, can wait to see results, understand that small things matter big and can look for the positive or at least be willing to be led there! It is just one more reason to consider becoming a foster parent.

The #1 Foster Parenting Myth: That someone like you can't be a foster parent.
It starts by contacting us. Find out how you can help a foster child.